Losing a pet may well be one of the most difficult times we ever have to endure.  You are hurting and for many, there is no one who truly understands your grief. 

If we are fortunate we had many happy years with our companion.  They were with us through good times and bad times.  They understood our moods and were always there to comfort us when we were sad.  Now, when we need comforting the most, they are not there.  At least not in the physical sense. 

Our friend is the reason for our pain.  And it is indeed a pain like no other.  We want to know they are safe.  We want to know if there really is a Rainbow Bridge where they are strong and healthy again.  We have to believe there is.

Watch for your friend, and listen.  They are there with just as much love in their hearts as they have always felt for you.  They don't like to see you sad so they will give you a sign that they're OK.

The following months will be turbulent.  You will awaken in the morning and your first thought will be about the emptiness in your heart.  Throughout the day you will feel like you are on a roller coaster ride.  From nowhere, the tears will begin to flow. If you don't think about it for a while, you will feel guilty.  This is completely natural and is part of the healing process.

You may find it hard to believe, but there will come a day when you will find another precious one to let into your heart.  They will never take the place of your friend at Rainbow Bridge.  They will quite simply demonstrate to you that you are the kind of person who needs a companion animal to love. 

When that time comes your heart will once again be filled with joy and your Bridge pet will be happy to share that space.